[ He almost doesn't want to ask this because he worries it speaks more about him than it will about her, no matter what her answer is. ]

Did it feel good? In the moment, I mean? It obviously doesn't in retrospect, I can see that all over your face and body language.

[ Hearing that it happened at her concert does sort of complicate things, he'll give her that. But that doesn't necessarily mean all is lost. ]

So was the sound you could hear your music? Their music? The audience clapping? Something else?